Non-Monogamy vs Mainstream Ideals

effy and sara discuss Aug 30, 2017

Effy Blue and her fearless assistant Sara take on mainstream ideals when it comes to alternative relationship structures and raising children, the sacredness of sex, and jealousy.

From the audio, "If Tom down the...

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A Beginner Non-Monogamist

Uncategorized Aug 09, 2017

Transitioning into non-monogamy? Effy Blue and her fearless assistant Sara help John navigate common pitfalls in this private audio recording: sexual urges, jealousy muscles, being a bro, is non-monogamy right for me,...

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Slutshaming & Feminism

effy and sara discuss Jul 12, 2017
 

This summer at Naughty in Nawlins – a two thousand person hotel take over swinger's convention in New Orleans – Sara and I bumped up against some issues regarding feminism.

After an engaging panel on...

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Effy Blue & Mindy Raf: Keeping My Kidneys (Part One)

effy blue interviews Jun 13, 2017
 

I had an amazing interview with comedian, writer and star actress of Keeping My Kidneys: "Identity, Sex, Anxiety, Polyamory, Death...Mindy Raf dismantles the romantic comedy one intimate moment at a time."

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Effy Blue & Mindy Raf: Keeping My Kidneys (Part Two)

effy blue interviews Jun 12, 2017
 

I had an amazing interview with comedian, writer and star actress of Keeping My Kidneys: "Identity, Sex, Anxiety, Polyamory, Death...Mindy Raf dismantles the romantic comedy one intimate moment at a time."

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Relationship by Design: Reinventing Relationships

relationship by design Dec 06, 2016

Relationship by Design: Reinventing Relationship


Co-authored by Emily Polak, PhD and Effy Blue

 

Trapped, bored, annoyed, disconnected, dead inside.

These are just some of the feelings commonly reported by...

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